Whether it was wrong or right, when I was very young & growing up it was expected that if your parents wanted you to know someone/anyone your parents would see to it that visits were made. When I was old enough to drive or otherwise I would/could make the visits myself if that is what I wanted to do be it right or be it wrong. Nowadays people do what they want in this regard & no one will tell me who I need to see at this big age nor will I be chasing anyone around forcing myself on nobody for no reason. Right or wrong.