What bothers you and why?
… but when something does, I go ‘inward’ to learn why it is that I’m bothered by this ‘outward’ thing. If I can do something about the way I am feeling about it I will. Otherwise, what would be the point? I am not responsible for outward stimuli/manipulations … only my responses … & ‘no response’ is, too, a response … the best, for me.