Are you holding a grudge? About?
I wouldn’t call it a grudge. It takes a lot to lose me, so when I leave/you leave, Im never coming back. You can forgive someone & yet not want anything to do with them moving forward. My pasts are behind me, not ahead of me … though, you can call it what you will, if I don’t want no more of a certain situation/person, I don’t want no more. Repeatedly talking about it is a problem for me. So let’s not.