What makes you nervous?
I visited a room I’ve not been in for a minute. It felt to me dingy and stale. There’s often someone there that is noticeably uncomfortable with my presence. I was invited but knew I wasn’t staying but for a minute. During that minute there was an awkward outburst and a few other odd sounds. Gatekeeper. That was that and it was time to go!
How do you unwind after a demanding day?
… for well over ten (10) years now, & will be for a little while longer.
How do you use social media?
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Describe a positive thing a family member has done for you.
… the heck alone.
Describe one positive change you have made in your life.
… to self improvement … period.
If you could be a character from a book or film, who would you be? Why?
I came to say one thing and the prompt kinda fit. And that is, I would never want to have to sing and dance for my money … nor lie. I ain’t doin’ it.
What is your favorite type of weather?
… the air quality is quality~ing! Every type from freezing to burning up!
What tattoo do you want and where would you put it?
… nowhere … at no time … I’m enjoying my skin AS IS … so be it.
What was the best compliment you’ve received?
So, I left ALL of the brownies, ALL of the Dr Pepper, ALL of the Welch’s strawberry fruit snacks, ALL of the Milky Ways, ALL of the Reese’s BIG peanut butter cups at the shops today! Congratulations, Nikki in a Nutshell! You did good!
What is the last thing you learned?
… I learned, 99.9% of it all isn’t about me and so the sooner I release all confusion anxiety tension resentment and the stagnation it has caused, the better, for me and everyone else. My great niece and her father were laid to rest yesterday. This has caused a seismic adjustment on my soul. Balance focus strength determination is in order, for me to show up fully in the life I live, endeavoring to leave matters better than I may find them, if/when possible. I’ve learned many things from many people, big and small, throughout my life and am grateful. The walls I’ve put up over the years can come down. Many of them are old and have caused me many difficulties over time/the years. My boundaries will suffice. I don’t even care for unnecessary walls in the literal/physical world! I can stretch out, see clearer and feel most free when things are open and laid out. So I’ll be open moving forward. I’ve learned this morning that my existence can be full and safe at the same time. I’ve more fully learned, today, that some things are about me, while most aren’t and it’s ok! I’m officially tired of being sick and tired. My life is to be lived and may I forever be learning!
Nikki In a Nutshell 