… but when something does, I go ‘inward’ to learn why it is that I’m bothered by this ‘outward’ thing. If I can do something about the way I am feeling about it I will. Otherwise, what would be the point? I am not responsible for outward stimuli/manipulations … only my responses … & ‘no response’ is, too, a response … the best, for me.
What strategies do you use to increase comfort in your daily life?
I couldn’t put my finger on it (then) but I knew it made no earthly sense to me & it didn’t feel good/right. As it continued, all the while getting worse, I, too, grew concerned. Clear about the issues not belonging to me, I felt supported with going down the road of ‘looking into it’, ‘figuring things out’ … ‘getting to the bottom of it ALL’. In the rabbit hole of all rabbit holes I found myself. It has been 9 years since I approached that/this rabbit hole & voluntarily dove it. NOW, with my head completely above ground, I am seeing big blue sky! With renewed strength & precious insight (BOTH from the heavens above), I am shaking off ALL resentment, now that I know what it is & what is does, because it CANNOT come with me … ANYWHERE. The best, hardest, most productive 9 years of my life. Demanding of/from me blood, sweat & tears.
What could you let go of, for the sake of harmony?
… of my personal opinion. So long as no laws or principles are being abused/sacrificed. YET, with my personal opinion in tact, harmony has to exist inside me, before ever outwardly.