In the mid to late 80’s I met who turned out to be one of my closest friends in life. I don’t know why exactly but she went on with her life without me. I believe one reason may have been that I’d found myself a mother to two brand news babies & ain’t nobody got time for that! I get it. I’ve since (25 or so years later) outgrown a few associations myself without explanation. I hope she is doing well & I do miss her. I never resented her for moving on. I had bigger fish to fry & I’m sure she did too.