GrowUp.

I am sick & tired of repeating myself. Some things I’ve been saying for almost 40 years straight. To the same people. Over & over & over again. Sometimes I’ve raised my voice, gone round & round in many conversations that end up going nowhere. Ain’t nobody got time for that. As of THIS DAY … I do believe that I can show you better than I can tell you. No more Miss Nice Woman.

Here’s Where I Stand

I’ve found myself standing between men & their addictions a few times in this beautiful life of mine. In what seemed, each time, to be ‘slow motion’ … he’d either hang his head low or look away, and without a fight, choose the poison over me, never looking back. When you know ‘where you stand’, by yourself or with others, stay in control … there’s plenty out there waiting to snatch you up … with no shame.

Call to Action

You’ve been duped. It is truly shameful for an over aged individual to readily hand over his/her thinking ability & decision making to another who’s CLEARLY psychotic. CLEARLY, I said. You’ve seen it. THAT makes ‘you’ in denial. You are in dire need of assistance. But if you ain’t brave enough to save yourself, that, too, is on you.

Do Yourself a Favor

Go somewhere, ANYWHERE, & figure it out. It is NECESSARY to spend time alone, on a regular basis, to listen to yourself … to think … to talk with yourself & search for satisfying answers to the IMPORTANT L I F E questions you’ve been avoiding for only you know how long. Feeling uncomfortable at the THOUGHT of such a thing is PROOF POSITIVE that your comfort zone is hindering our person growth. You should always be growing … like a seed bursting open to reveal it’s insides. It’s how the light gets in. Don’t forget to hydrate!